NHS Student Expresses Fear of Harassment

I recently conducted an interview with a male NHS student facing the internal struggle of coming out of the closet. The interview took place in my car, off-campus, as the student felt too nervous talking with me at school.

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Avery: I know for me there was a defining moment when it hit me that I was gay. Did you experience anything like that?

Student: I can’t remember a particular moment. But sophomore year I had a crush on someone. When I finally accepted the crush, I knew. I’d been ignoring the signs since seventh grade.

Avery: How do you think your friends and parents would react if you were to come out?

Student: I think most of my friends would be pretty accepting. I’ve actually come really close to telling a few of them, but then someone makes a gay comment, and I change my mind. As far as my parents, I don’t know what they would say. I haven’t told them. In fact, I’ve only told a couple of LGBT people.

Avery: How do you think the school will react?

Student: I think people might be really immature. I think they might tease me. I’m afraid of harassment. I mean, I would love to be a role model for other people struggling with coming out… but I’m scared.

Avery: How has being in the closet affected your self-esteem?

Student: It causes me to be a bit depressed at times. I try to just hold it in and hope that things get better.

Avery: If you could send one message to people in the closet, what would you say?

Student: Remember that you’re not alone. There are other people in the same spot. They’re scared too. And if you want support, join GSA. It lets you know there are people out there, gay and straight, who support you.